"The More boys I meet, the more I love my dog"
Only a few days after buying the dress and getting dinner plans and everything else all sorted out, I found out that my "date" was insuring people (people that weren't even his friends or mine) that he would have me in bed within two months. Now I no longer have a date to the dance and now I REALLY just don't want to go. I'm really starting to wonder if I can ever trust a guy. My mom keeps trying to get me to find a new date to the dance. I don't think she fully understands why I don't want to go now.
I don't get it. I don't present myself as a girl who will just sleep with anyone, especially at such a young age. I mean everyday I wear a sweatshirt and jeans with a pair of tennis shoes. I don't wear makeup or style my hair to be all fancy. I just don't get it. Every new guy that I talk to now I can't help but think that they have an alternative plan because it seems like lately they have.
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I quit club soccer. I know you guys don't approve but I finally made my own choice about something and I didn't let you guys decide or help me decide. I'm not your little girl anymore. I need to make my own mistakes now so that I can learn from them. I understand that sometimes the parents know whats best but sometimes what is best is to let me make my own choice and let me deal with the outcome of it.This doesn't mean I don't love you anymore. You're my mom and dad. I will always love you.
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Sorry I haven't posted in more than a week but I haven't been able to come up with a good way of saying this until now.
Carrie Underwood, love her songs :)
ReplyDeleteFrogs, I'm so sorry to hear that...
Some guys can be just plain jerks.
And trust me, we'll all come across a LOT of jerks.
But there ARE guys out there who you can trust--but you have to give it some time. I mean, at high school...maybe it's not the best idea. Cause in high school, what most guys want, is a freak show in bed.
And that's not cool. And I respect you very much, how you respect yourself and your parents--that you won't just give yourself away like that.
You're really an inspiration, standing up to yourself, and being who you are, not peer pressured.
I say, you should still go to the dance.
Just because you don't have a date, doesn't mean you can't go with friends!
It's not about dating or anything--it's about being who YOU are, and having YOUR fun.
So, go! Find a few friends :)
Or perhaps, if you have a close guy friend--maybe him!
Or tag along with other people :)
Just have fun!
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Yeah, I'm proud of you for making your own decisions. You are old enough to choose if you want to stay in a club or not.
(Man, this is the longest comment I've ever posted)
Remember, all your life, you can't be told what to do--that doesn't mean you need to rebel, but for things that don't affect anyone in a negative way--make those choices yourself.
You're so responsible! And I'm here if you ever need me!
Love, Princess!<3
Frogs as time goes by you'll find a good person who cares about you and not so much about themselves. The girl invite boy concept makes boys think you are desperate. Or are hung up on them so they can take liberties. Be true to you. RAWR
ReplyDeleteLove you new look. Keep it up. Have a great Friday. Rawr
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